I Swear my Friends are Real!
This post is kind of a primer for my next post...not that I have many readers who will read this though...;)
Being part of an online community is sometimes hard to explain. People look at me as if I've suddenly sprouted 6 heads or something when I try to explain that these people, who I call my friends, are people I've actually either never met or have only met face to face a handful of times. And I consider quite a few of them to be among some of my very best friends...
I've been a part of an online community since 2002. I was planning my wedding/honeymoon trip and decided to search for some suggestions of romantic things to do at Walt Disney World. I stumbled upon a community known as the DIS. I was immediately intrigued and found myself on the forums constantly! I wasn't particularly taken with most of the folks who posted at the time, but I loved reading what they had to say. It fascinated me to see these people who could be anyone out there posting so much about their lives to complete strangers. I read the posts more than I posted for the first few years as I just didn't have much to say. But all of that changed when the DIS Unplugged podcast forum arrived...
The DIS began to offer a weekly podcast that I enjoyed very much. I have listened to every episode since the podcast began. The podcast was presented in a roundtable format with the folks on the podcast reporting on something related to Disney or other Orlando theme parks and happenings. It has evolved over the years and is better than ever, in my opinion.
The DIS folks decided that there needed to be a forum dedicated to the listeners of the podcast. Again...I wandered in there and participated just a little at first. And then something changed...one of the podcasters, Bob, passed away. I have never been so devastated over the death of someone I had never met before. And that's when the podcast forum changed...
What started as a place to post about the podcast became a community. We banded together to get through Bob's death and genuine friendships were born. Never before would I have considered booking a cruise to meet 300 other people interested in the same thing that I was. But I did. And the idea of traveling alone to Walt Disney World to meet a group of complete strangers was never something that I would have done before. But I did. And the people that I have met are pretty amazing people.
My first experience with my friends was a bit surreal. We all knew each other by screen names, but we did not know what the others looked like or how they were in person. Let's face it...people online aren't always who they portray themselves to be. That's pretty common knowledge. But meeting these people in person...they are exactly what they portray online. We had an absolute blast that weekend and couldn't wait to see each other again...it was very hard to say goodbye even after just a few days...
Matthew and I participated in the big podcast cruise that they had in May. By the time the Disney Wonder set sail, there were 300 podcast fans aboard that ship...we all felt sorry for the non-DIS folks on board! But that was one of the BEST trips that I've ever had! I was reunited with a few of the folks that I had met back in December and got to meet many more of my new found friends in person...my BFF being one of them. Jen and I had bonded over posting on the DIS and through Facebook. We spoke pretty much daily either through phone calls or Facebook chat. But we had never met as she lives in Delaware and I am in Indy. After spending the week with her on the cruise...she really is my BFF. We still talk daily and are planning to room together for the next trip to Disney World in December. It will be another whirlwind weekend with everyone, but it's going to be so much fun!!
And let's not forget that we've booked the next podcast cruise as well...
But back to the point of this blog entry...these folks have become my real-life friends. We have quite an amazing support group...and we all get each other. We all share a common interest that brought us together and now we're real-life, honest to goodness friends and not just a screen name...

